EFT - Osteoarthritis Knee Pain Uncovers Unresolved Grief

Stella (not her real name) came to see me inup in a knot and leaking some liquid goo that was
September 2008 because she had osteoarthritis injust lying there.
her right knee, swelling due to a Baker's cyst (aEven if the cavern looks very red.
benign swelling found behind the knee joint); and sheEven if the pipe is tied up in a knot
had quite a bit of pain. Her family doctor told her allEven if the pipe is dripping liquid goo
that the only thing that could be done was to takeEven if this liquid goo is just lying there
analgesics for the pain, and ice on the knee. SheThen I asked what emotion she felt as she looked
could also have a steroid shot in the knee.around. She said she felt she was choking, and there
Stella was taking the analgesics, and her stomachwas sadness.
was feeling terrible. She wanted to know if she couldWe tapped for the choking and the sadness, and
get relief with EFT. I told her we could work on thewhat came up was a memory of her dad saying
emotional components of her pain and arthritis andgoodbye to her and telling her that he and her mom
that it might or might not be a one minute miracle.were getting a divorce, and she had never cried and
We've been having sessions once a week since midkept it all in. Stella had been 7 at the time, she didn't
September 2008 (we're in mid-November), her painhave anyone to talk to and felt she had to be brave.
was at a 9 and her leg was quite swollen from theWe tapped on:
knee down to her ankle when we started. Some ofEven if Daddy is saying goodbye, I was such a good
the phrases we have tapped on include:girl.
Even if I have this burning pain in my right kneeEven if I was so sad, and confused and lonely
Even if I was dismayed to hear I had developEven if I didn't want Daddy to leave
osteoarthritisEven if Daddy looks so sad
Even if I have osteoarthritisHe's holding his hat in his hands
Even if the doctor smiled as she gave me theEven if I was brave, I now choose to express my
diagnosissadness.
Even if the doctor told me this will never be curedEven if I was choked up, I can now express how I
Even if the doctor doesn't want to be bothered byfeel
my symptomsStella was connecting for the first time to all the
Even if my knee is sore when I wake up in thefeelings she had buried about the experience, and
morningexpressing them as we did round after round.
Even if I can't sit crossed legged anymoreEven if I am so incredibly sad
We were not getting much relief, when sheEven if I feel so hurt
mentioned that when she called her mother, to shareEven if I feel so lonely
what the doctor had said, her mother was ecstatic!Even if I feel that I did something to cause this
Even if my mother was happy that I developedAfter this session, the pain went down to 0, and the
osteoarthritisswelling was reduced by 80%. Also, she said that the
Even if I can hear the glee in her voiceinside of her knee now looked pink and shiny. There
Even if I'm scared I'm going to end up as crippled bywas a lot less goo on the floor, and the pipe looked
arthritis as she isstraight and normal.
Even if I swore I wouldn't be like her, and now IWe have continued working on that event, and
have her diseaseincluded her relationship with her mother during her
We also tapped on her "worst" mother memory. Atparents divorce. Stella can now go up and down the
the end of the session, Stella's pain had gone downstairs without pain, and she can sit cross legged for
to a 6, and her leg was still swollen.short periods. She still has some swelling on her knee;
By now, I was intrigued on why we were making sothe Baker's cyst has not completely disappeared,
little progress. The next session, I invited Stella tothere has been a huge improvement and we're still
close her eyes and imagine she was going inside hertapping!
knee. She drank an "invisible shrinking potion" (she's aAs of January, 2009, her swelling and pain have
Harry Potter fan) and went into the kneecompletely disappeared. She can kneel once more
accompanied by Professor Dumbledore as backupand sit cross-legged! She has been tapping every day
support. She described the inside of her knee as aand doing sessions once a week!
cavern that was very red, with a pipe that was tied