Successful Selling and The Theory of Relativity

Albert Einstein formulated the theory that says thatGates believed that people would never own a
space and time are relative concepts rather thanpersonal computer, I'd be writing this on a typewriter.
absolute concepts. For example, consider a carTo further make this point, I thought I would share a
speedometer reading at 65 miles per hour. How fastpersonal story. When I was in the eighth grade, my
is the car going? This question seems like thefamily moved from New York to New Jersey.
beginning of the joke of who is buried in Grant's(Where to start with the jokes...) At the time that
tomb and you are expecting a punch line. No jokewe moved, I was an excellent student, A's across
here, I assure you. As a matter of fact, most wouldthe board. Shortly after moving, I injured my knee
respond 65 miles per hour. This is the correct answerplaying baseball. I ended up having two knee
if and only if you are comparing the car to someonesurgeries and spent my entire freshman year of high
who is not moving. However, if you compare thatschool on crutches. Here I am living in a new state,
same car to the car driving next to it that is drivinggoing to a new school, knowing next to no one. I
55 miles per hour, your car is only moving at 10 mileslost my focus.
per hour.I became friendly with a few kids who were not
So, what does that have to do with sales? Whenvery good students. They were nice kids, not
you look at your sales performance, to whattroublemakers, but they did not perform well in
standard do you compare yourself? Is it to theschool. During my freshman year of high school, I set
others on the sales team? Is it to your quota? Is itmy personal worst records for grades, but I was
to a sales record that has stood for 10 years in yourable to rationalize my performance. My grades were
company? Maybe you look at your performancenothing to write home about, but I was scoring
relative to your income goals?better than my friends. From that relative point of
While any of these comparative points are important,view, I was doing fine.
they all have one thing in common. They limit yourTowards the end of my freshman year, I became
potential. How good can you be? If you set a ceilingfriends with a different group of kids. These friends
to that, you will never know. Yes, hitting your quotalater attended Wharton, Harvard, Emory, and Bates.
is important. Achieving your income goal is alsoAll prestigious schools... Relative to them, my grades
important. But could you achieve more? Could you bewere a disgrace. They never made me feel badly
better? The car moving at 65 miles per hour isabout it, but I felt uncomfortable. Their success
moving pretty fast, but only relative to a non-movingdrove me to rediscover myself. During the remainder
entity. Your competitors are moving right along withof my high school and collegiate career, I elevated
you. Maybe you are in the lead, but competition doesmy game to top of the class. I credit much of that
not stagnate. To them, maybe you are only movingwith changing my approach to relativity.
at 10 miles per hour.Nature also uses the theory of relativity. If you put a
Compare that same car to a jet. The speed of thefish in a 10 gallon tank, the fish will only grow to a
car is not overly impressive. The jet can get youcertain size. The surroundings of the fish limit its size
from New York to Florida in a couple of hours. Theand growth. Put that same fish in a larger tank and
car needs 24 hours to reach the same destination.the fish will continue to grow. Want to get better at
Competitors get smarter. Customers get smarter.golf? Play with better golfers. Want to run faster?
And you have to get better if you are going to beTrain with better runners.
successful. What worked yesterday is not going toWhat limitations are you putting on your sales
work tomorrow. Self improvement is the only waysuccess? Are you failing to achieve your quota? Are
to do it.your friends on the team missing their quota too? Do
There are no ceilings in sales unless you place themyou accept that because you are all failing? Or do
there. One of my favorite quotes is, "When someoneyou compare yourself to a higher standard? What
says it can't be done, it only means that HE can't doare you doing each and every day to improve
it." Every day people accomplish the seeminglyyourself? Is your goal just to be better, or is it to be
impossible. How do they do it? Simple. They don'tthe best?
compare themselves to any standard. They have noYou are the only obstacle to your success. Get out
limitations. As I write this, I'm flying on a plane. If theof your own way and enjoy the results.
Wright brothers believed in ceilings, I'd be driving. If Bill